Author: Lauren Schaefer

How to Really Find Your Soulmate

There are a million supposed solutions for finding your eternal partner/lover/ husband/soulmate. You could do online dating. You could do summer dates, bad dates, date older or younger, international dates, date your work, date your type, date...

How to Know When You Are Settling

Well ladies, another one bit the dust for me over here in Datingland. I’m back to this blog post (and following it quite well I’m proud to say). But truthfully, it was hard to...

The Season for Summer Lovin’

Danny and Sandy were right. Summer loving is the best. The absolute best. With the toes exposed, the sweat down your back, and the hair in a ponytail, the romantic opportunities for summer fun...

Dress for Romance

During the job interview process, what you wear is always important. You want to make sure you are putting your best foot forward-  you are dressing for success and showing your best self. So...

Sleeping with the Technology

Guys, I’m cheating on my boyfriend. He isn’t the only one that’s been occupying my bed. I know it is bold to come out on the social web and admit it, but I need...

The Friendship Breakup

On last week’s post, we discussed “your person,” that important presence in your life, outside of your romantic relationship, that is your closest confident. After the column, we got this email: “Just wanted to...

This one goes out to the ladies…

This week I want to take a moment to thank those people that really keep relationships in check… the friends/the confidants/the ladies. Now some might wonder… what do your friends have to do with...

Are you in a mediocre relationship?

I’ve known ladies who have said they are going to break up with their boyfriends, and then they don’t. I have friends who have broken up with their boyfriends, only to get right back...